She is trying to build those legs btw but the fantastical nature of how she thinks the post-D future will pan out is just mind-boggling.
bahahaha, my H thought he and AP would live next door and he would still come over for dinner every night with the family. We would still be best friends. WSs totally live in this crazy fantasy land.
One day just after BD she started telling me some detail about post-D life. She went - "I have in-fact planned my post-D life already" (sentence stayed in my mind for its ridiculousness). When I told her in response only as much that post-D is going to look different from what you imagine now, she went ballistic and accused me of threatening her. Then she threw insults at me and left the room. She even got her family to try making me promise that everything is going to be great post-D . I realized using logic much later on that that it is very likely they knew about her A even as they actively hid it from me while trying to elicit guarantees.