I'm Back after 1st DB

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Josh_T,

Should I push the issue of staying in the marital bed? It would be interesting because the kids will see what is going on.

Which bed you sleep in isn't as much the issue as the principle behind it. If you'd prefer the bed to which you're accustomed than sleep there or if you'd be more comfortable in another room due to your work arrangements than so be it, but make the decision based on what is best for you and not in a manner to be nice and soft and weak to her in fear she might then divorce you over it. Stand up and be strong and take control of your life; do not kowtow to someone who wants to divorce you.