Hey, yeah, I'm not moving out yet, because of money. And reconnecting is a knee jerk reaction. I'm not doing it. It was the first time we had a serious convo post BD, so we both were emotional.
All your points are awesome, and yeah, my first GAL night out, BD +3, I felt free. Unlike the first time, where I struggled, this time I see the potential if where I want my life to be. I truely lost that original spark when I was dating. In fact I think I might have even told W during BD that we never connected in the first place. Out of necessity, we are communicating far better organising a parenting plan. As I told a friend, she did me a service for doing what I should have done myself.
I've read Sandi's rules so many times, and even between DB, I'd review them when things were low. I love those tips.
And yeah, I'm cancelling the couples therapy. The only way we need any professional support would be mediation. And that's probably not required.
Thanks for the support, and the usual kick in the ass reminders on what to do. Much appreciated.
