Really, the grieving was over in like 12 hours, I know what I'm in for, I just have validate like F and not get sucked into her attempts to start arguments. And TBH, I'm looking forward to it.
This is great. After your last post my first thought was "why are you discussing all of this?" Discussing all of that in your last post has no way of ending well for you. As you have discovered. So yes avoid getting sucked into those "discussions". Remember, "I don't know" is a valid response to questions. Do not feel you have to have answers to her questions! Also valid: "I will need some time to think about that before I can give you an answer."
But always be the one to end the discussion. "I can't sit here and talk about this, I have things to do." Then go be busy!
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
