Well, it's funny how in the morning W is all sympathetic, but now that I've announced that I want to move out she goes into a tirade about how you can't afford it, haven't you thought about it (no, BD was like 48 hours ago)? Then she reverted to the hostile form I remember last time of starting arguments on the simplest of things. Telling, and as expected, she talked about how the house will be split not 50/50,and then asked if I agree. Remember, this is BD +3. So I had to play dumb that I don't know, she proceeds to justify the uneven split and says anything other and I'll be resentful. Now, $ is in her values, so I shouldn't be surprised. It's funny she says stuff where I know the truth is the opposite. "I'm detached!". No, you aren't, you're arguing. "I'm so happy!" No you aren't, your snappy and moody. "your arguing!". No, I'm not. It's you, you are gaslighting/projecting.
And the more I think, she's won the lottery because she doesn't have to work, and the money will keep rolling in. Anyhow, L for sure. In the meantime, I've moved beds, brave face for the kids, and GAL. Which will be awesome because I love weights at nite, so I'll be signing up for that.
Really, the grieving was over in like 12 hours, I know what I'm in for, I just have validate like F and not get sucked into her attempts to start arguments. And TBH, I'm looking forward to it. We have one more couples session left. It's going to be interesting.
