Sorry your back here but unfortunately this is quite common for quick turnarounds. Typically those are just a stay of execution. You probably already know but having another baby while piecing was a really bad idea. I scanned through your thread and cringed when I read it. Your W’s statement that you make her “physically ill” speaks volumes. My advice to you which will probably not be popular is to GAL like a made man, get in the best shape of your life and when she drops the bomb again you agree with it. You tell her you are in full agreement with it and you wish her well and you go in the complete opposite direction. A 40 something year old with a toddler and two other young kids will not be a hot commodity on the dating market. It will take some time but eventually she will more than likely realize what she left behind. If she doesn’t you won’t care anyways because you will be living your best life.
