I personally give my opinions on a case by case basis based on certain situations and a feel for the LBS as a person.......So much of this stuff is about timing. Most peoples regrets on this board including myself is that they were weak little bitche$ during their situations. Don’t have those regrets later on down the line.
I have watched LH19 for a long time now. He remembers details of everyones sitch. He gives sound advise.
Cookie cutter advise from me. You have lots of things to process. So many changes to the way you behave and interact. They are learned skills. Most do things in the wrong order or at the wrong time.