I wonder how much of a weight would be lifted from you if today you declared that a relationship with the Pilot or exh is NEVER going to happen and the option is not on the table.
Well - I've avoided seeing XH... and I texted pilot yesterday that he was an AHole.
Thought that was pretty much me burning those bridges???
No. Not by sabotaging them and calling people a holes.
By saying “ I know a relationship is never going to happen with them and a relationship is what I want, so I have decided it’s never going to happen “
You don’t have to burn the bridges by name calling. You need to burn the bridges by making a conscious and clear choice
