One last thing, I'm not proponent of the LRT for IHS. That would be nearly impossible to accomplish. What I found a lot of power in was (we were IHS too) was Sandi's rules. They were invaluable to me in my sitch. Treating her like the cashier at the store. Being upbeat, happy, pleased around her. That was the dynamic that started to turn my situation around. LRT is really for physical separation when a LBS is tempted to keep reaching out to their WAS, and jumps at the opportunity to respond anytime the WAS condescends to be the one to reach out.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
