Originally Posted by PeterB
She has asked irritatedly - "why didn't you make these changes last year?".
Option B.

Even more important, it is about your attitude when you say it. A glint in your eye, your tone, the inflections, your body language.

You have been enlightened. You were in a carppy mariage and are extremely excited to be free at last. You can do whatever you want whenever you want. You FINALLY GET IT. You are argeeing with her.

BTW, she is not asking a question. It is a statement.

The good thing is she is noticing your changes. Keep them up for you, not her. What you are doing is working.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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