AK, so sorry to hear about your dad. Never easy. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
However, sometimes good things can come out of bad things. And while I too am very pro-marriage and dislike seeing divorce, I can never fault a person for moving forward with D when their spouse is an unrepentant cheater. So seeing your start to strengthen through your dad is really nice to see. Keep being there for your dad, and then make sure you are being there for yourself too!
Thank you, Steve. Yes, to say I was surprised about my dad's reaction about my situation is an understatement. I really thought he would still be hoping for reconciliation, or at least some work towards MR. It is good to know how strongly he feels about what H has done and that I pretty much has his blessings if D is in the horizon. I must also say before we were married, my dad was one of H's biggest supporter, so I am sure dad is feeling the same if not more disappointment in H's actions.
