PeterB I am starting to see your enlightenment through all of this coming to fruition! So many LBSs come here broken and scarred and just trying to hold on to their marriage, which was also broken, with a death grip! So kudos to you for starting to open your eyes to the reality of your situation.
Take what BL said about covert contracts to heart. Most of us suffered from some level of Nice Guy Syndrome in our life and now is a moment to face that in your self and fix it to set yourself up for future relationship success. I highly recommend the book No More Mr. Nice Guy.
And as far as Kind's two options....option B all day long and twice on Sunday!
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
