How she can juggle Two guys talking to and a job and family and whatever else is mind boggling.
Most likely, she is doing more than this. No need for you to "Confirm" or Understand" anything else. Just know the stove is hot. Stop touching it. Every time you touch it, you will get burned.
You are walking down the wrong path. There are two paths. Focus on her, or focus on yourself.
Originally Posted by Dink
Today I guess I’m looking for comments from people who have a success story, people men or women who have been on this board and have had a long haul but finally are in a good place and reconciled.
The weekend was amazing.
You have a big onion to peel. One layer at a time. I am still peeling back layers and I have been divorced for over 10 years.
One of those layers is learning as much as you can about attraction and seduction and the difference between the two. Your wife lost her attraction for you. You can learn new attractive ways to behave. You can drop the unattractive behaviors. You do this not for her, but for yourself. Make a list. refine the list as needed.
For example, most likely you are loosing weight ..the divorce diet. Start hitting the gym and start eating a healthier diet. You will become more physically attractive.
