Dink, no drive by! Remember the call—did touching the stove make you feel better or improve R chances? No! You don’t control her. You may feel she’s Satan herself for spending Easter with OM instead of the kids, and she may feel she deserves “me” time after 18yrs raising them. Guess who’s beliefs drive her decisions? Whether your goal is to salvage this relationship or move away from it as overall unhappy, the most successful path is to focus on yourself.
