I know what you guys are saying and I agree. I wasn’t really going to drive buy. It’s just so messed up. She is staying at new Affair partners house for Easter more than likely and , now is also in contact with old affair partner from 4 years ago. How she can juggle Two guys talking to and a job and family and whatever else is mind boggling. And I think it is personally starting to affect her some and it’s still somewhat early on. But as you have so said i can’t control it. I have not said anything to her about any of this just wanted to put it on here to get thoughts and feed back. Man until you actually go thru this you can’t truly believe how messed up a affair can turn someone Upside down and there life upside down like this, but at the end of the day I have to let her as Sandi said basically die down to the root….
