Just throwing this out there to get feed back. I know I doing LRT, and GAL, but found out today that she is now in contact with previous affair partner EA from a bout 4 years ago, and been frequently staying at current AP on weekends the past month so that’s messed up.
Also, I believe she plans on doing Easter at his house with possibly his son and has no plans to do anything with our kids. When I met the kids to tell them about divorce I said to them all that they should spend Easter with her and their grandma, because of This being the first Easter since her Dad died and their grandpa.
The kids informed me on Thursday That my wife’s sister and her husbands are going to his parents for Easter, and have invited my wife’s mom over to their place as well and they are going there. So my wife had no place to go, but they said she told them to go to my side of the family’s Easter. I told the kids to spend Easter with their mom since she had no were to go. Well my wife texted me and said she needed to talk to me about Easter with the kids. I said I told them to do something with you so you are not alone. She was acting pissy saying I think they should be with you and told the kids to be with me. I said to her you just said you had nowhere to go for Easter, why not have them at the LakeHouse. She said I’m not going to bust my ass cleaning to have it here. Why dont you do it at the other house, I said I don’t have a table here. or tv or any pots or pans, etc. I said you don’t have no place to go where else are you got to be, she said we’re else you got to be. I said I could go .to my side for Easter. So now I am doing something with the kids on Sunday which is great, instead of going to my families side. But I just have this gut feeling she is planning to go to his house and having Easter with him and possible his son or something. I mean why would she not want to spend time with the kids on Easter if she had no other place to go? The guy only live a mile from where I’m staying. So I think I’m going to drive before meeting the kids on Easter to see if her vehicle is there, because if it is that is just F’d up…I think she is so far gone right now.
