Depends on what your boundaries are. If you have a boundary that if she sleeps with other men then you will divorce her then you divorce her. If your boundary is if she sleeps with OM you will separate then separate. Are you familar with boundaries?
I see a thread called "boundaries". Are you suggesting I read that? Should I tell her that if she PAs then I will divorce her (she does not know that I know about OM)? Fyi: little over a month ago she asked me during one of the discussions - what if I want to have sex with other men? She followed it up with a modesty reclamation by saying that she does not like men and that she is 'extremely' choosy with men. I promptly replied that she should file a divorce asap and then sleep with whoever.
