Her mom, whom my wife has told she wants a divorce contacted me to help her get a vehicle She has in storage today...But anyway I told her I could help her this evening with getting the truck.
This doesn't sound like your job anymore. I could think of a thousand better ways to spend your time. Working out, dinner with your kids, drinks with a friend, movie by yourself, cooking or art class, hike in the woods...etc.
In terms of the call back, everyone else said it well. No call back, I concur. Your kids are adults, so going directly to them makes perfect sense - there's no real need to coordinate on items like there would be for a young child.
How did you feel about the 30th anniversary? Was it tough, or a non-factor?
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21