Read this:
https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2051316#Post2051316


What RobX says is what your attitude should be. I am not saying you should say those words to her at this point in time.

There are also some good posts in that thread. Might be a good idea to read through that thread.

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712