Yes, I am preparing for a long haul, even though I don't know what it will look like. What if she travels to where the OM lives and meets him again? How do you think that will change the dynamic?
Depends on what your boundaries are. If you have a boundary that if she sleeps with other men then you will divorce her then you divorce her. If your boundary is if she sleeps with OM you will separate then separate. Are you familar with boundaries?
Originally Posted by PeterB
I am working out again - quite a bit actually. It's been a month, but WAW recently commented that my body looks great. Then she said something like "if we divorce then another woman will get lucky".
This is typical WW script.
Originally Posted by PeterB
There have been 180s and actions perceived as 180s by WAW. To clarify the latter, as I mentioned earlier, she has always denied that I do anything important around the house. That is something I strongly disagree and at times I even made lists of things I did that day and shown it to her. She would have no answer at the time but weeks later relapse back into saying that I don't do anything.
Peter she has to paint you as the bad guy. That makes it easier to D you. If you were a perfect guy how would that make her look leaving a perfectly good marriage?
