As SteveLW says, women can’t be in a healthy relationship with men they don’t respect.
Absolutely agree. In situations like this it seems that the actions which lead to earning or losing respect are a bit hard to pin down in practice.
Originally Posted by Kind18
She might be enjoying sex with you physically atm, but she has zero respect for you because you’re willing to do that in the knowledge she’s with someone else.
Would like to clarify that she does NOT know that I know. I was informed about the affair by a friend who happened to spot them on what clearly looked like a date.
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do it because you have self respect and boundaries.
The theme seems to be that whatever I do or say, it needs to build on demonstrating self-respect and setting boundaries.
