Well said, Kind. "I think we should stop having sex?" is PASSIVE--deferring the decision about what he wants to do with his body to his wife. People respect guys more capable of ACTIVELY making decisions for themselves (which is different than AGGRESSIVELY trying to make decisions for other people).

Originally Posted by Kind
And don’t do this to punish her or teach her a lesson… do it because you have self respect and boundaries.
Right. This isn't angry or cold retribution. This is choosing what's right for your mind and body.