This will get easier. I have lots of practice(experience) as do the others.
This is the type of responses you want to send her:
Originally Posted by ovrrnbw
"Talked to J, thanks."
Every single time she calls, you let it go to voice mail. You then listen to it WHEN YOU ARE READY. Then you take as long as you need to process it. Then you decide if and when and how to respond (if YOU DECIDE a response is required).
When you change the way you interact with her, it changes the dynamics of the relationship.
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