Originally Posted by kml
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It's obvious that it has been difficult for him. He looks so much more skinny and generally unhealthy, but it is his decision. I understand and accept there is nothing I can do to change anything here.

Is it, really? “Difficult” for him? I sincerely doubt it. He’s not some tragic figure torn between his “true love” and shame at abandoning his pregnant wife and toddler.
Hahah, thanks,kml. I am sure that is what he is thinking to justify his bad behaviour.

Originally Posted by kml
He’s a selfish unfaithful idiot. If he’s looking thin and unhealthy, it’s either because OW is a terrible cook, he’s incapable of feeding himself, or I’d be just a little worried that he might be abusing drugs or alcohol. Does that seem like a possibility?
He has been depressed and lost lots of weight in the past, so that's one possibility. He doesn't drink or do drugs aside from anti-depressant, but he doesn't seem stable enough to appear that he's taken any.