WAW w/Exit Affair or WW? - Divorced Anyway (6)

[BL42]

i think i read the other day that 80% of the women chase the top 20% of the men with OLD and with the other percentages quoted here means you have to be super sharp in the photo and words!

Yep. Think of your profile like your resume.

Point taken guys. I need to sharpen up my profile, photos and description.

Try standing out and upping your photo game. 2 selfies aren’t going to do it, unfortunately.

I realized while signing creating OLD profiles I literally had no pictures of just me in the past decade. My photo roll is almost exclusively my kids, family, ExW, or a big group of friends. So I took a few selfies in the past 6 months and two of them are actually looking pretty good - no bathroom or gym or anything. I do have one of me scuba diving which I thought was pretty cool and may generate some discussion. But I agree, time to up my photo game. I thought about hiring a photographer friend to take a couple shots but not sure if that's "too much". I just rarely have pictures taken of me.

I like to see at least one photo of a guy with friends or coworkers - makes it more likely they HAVE friends, better yet if you all look like you're having fun.

I've avoided including other people. Don't want to be posting their pics on OLD profiles.

A photo doing some activity you enjoy is nice.

I have a few of scuba diving. Need to get some of doing activities golf, ice skating...etc. I guess I need to be better about having friends take pictures of me, but it seems a bit awkward.

A great conversation starter and the part that gets my attention is the “two truths and a lie” if they are interesting, I’ll open up the conversation with my guess.

I've seen those on others. Maybe I'll try it.

You have to pull them in with something, and being a above average looking dad isn’t going to do it on the OLD world

Getting the hard truths here on the board! LOL. Good feedback though, thanks.