Hi Nevanna - I'm so impressed with how you are handling H, you just rock!
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He told me that that was always one of the things he loved about me--how I would just listen to him. At the time, I didn't think much of it, but I'm really seeing the relevance of it now. I think over the last few months, forcing myself to go back to just validating and listening, I was (without realizing it) changing myself back toward the person he fell in love with.

This is so powerful. NG and I need to remember what we were like 21 yrs ago, ouch Slowly

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