Hey JQ I see what you are saying, honestly wasn’t thinking of it like it might come across as manipulation. Thing is the kids have said this before BD. But yes, I do need to be aware of things I say with the kids, as how it may come across.

Wife was suppose to come this weekend to the house to go thru stuff she defines wanted so I can
Clean out stuff that could go to goodwill and such. I got a text last night about 7 p.m saying im sorry I forgot to call yo this weekend about coming over to house. I’ve been sick all weekend.
I never responded.

So. Today is our 30th anniversary lol. Anyways , She went back to work today after have the spring break week off. She has no sick time left, and will be docked pay for leaving. Anyways.


This morning she texted me. ‘Are you at work” I waited a bit to reply and said yes. She said ok, I am super sick as school and leaving for day. Im going to use bathroom
At house if that's ok. I waited a bit and replied, house is a mess,it's up to you. She replied I went to moms house. I didn't respond.

Her moms house is one block from our house im staying at. She should have just gone there to begin with. Lol