Originally Posted by DejaVu6
Really sorry to hear your D hasn’t come around Wolfman. I agree with others. She will one day when she is older and a bit more mature. Just keep being a steady presence in your sons’ lives. You can’t control what she does…just what you do. Keep the door open. Find ways to let her know she is not forgotten. Keep being the best Wolfman you can be. (((HUGS)))

Thank you. It’s hard but I am trying to be the best for my boys.

MLC. I can’t speak to my ex because she is the one who ruined the relationship. Second, I can’t do anything towards my d because my ex fought hard so I couldn’t. I can only speak to her through the therapist. But the therapist stopped it months ago. I reached out to her about starting g therapy again, but she hasn’t responded. I am stuck. So for holidays I send her a card. Technically I could get I. Trouble for that but I want her to know I still love her. I would think it would be hard for a judge to be mad at me for giving my daughter a card on holidays. It really really stinks. Sometimes it hits me that I have d I can’t see or talk to.


M:42 XW:41
T:19 M: 15
D:13 S:10
BD: 8/10/18
Moved out: 8/18
Moved in: 9/18/18
Moved out: 4/22/19
D papers signed 11/4/19
D final 3/18/20