Things went well yesterday with mom son, we got some more things done at the house. We did work for about 3 hours, then just hung out and chatted. Overall was a pretty good day. He did say his mom did say to him that the decision was probably a little more her than me but it was mutual.
My daughter and her fiancé stopped over also a little later and we all talked a little. It’s funny I sense they all pretty much know that it was mom who was pushing for this more after talking with her.
It was nice to hear them defend me some for basically having to do everything, and say mom is a Huge procrastinator and you pretty much had to do everything. They said She is not good at knowing how to do things and I did say that I was partially my fault by trying to do everything and and trying to make up for the past . And I was honest and said by doing that and kinda like walking on eggshells, that probably didn’t help, and I see that now. She lost maybe respect and atttraction By being a doormat I told them what I needed to do was balances my new changes with the old me, and it would have been better, but I know at least going forward what I need to do.
