WAW w/Exit Affair or WW? - Divorced Anyway (6)

[BL42]

DejaVu6,

Appreciate the feedback.

BL… RE: OLD… I’m not sure what your profile looks like but make sure you have decent pictures (no mirror selfies, no pics of you lying on a bed shirtless…no shirtless pictures period unless you are on a beach, no pictures of you and attractive females).

When I first created an OLD account I realize I had no pictures of just me in the last decade. They were all mostly of or with my kids and also my ExW. So I took one or two decent selfies on my own but probably need to up my picture game.

Bottom line…you want to appear approachable and friendly, confident but not arrogant, and serious but not too serious. It’s a fine line to walk which is why I would get some female friends to give you some feedback if possible.

Thanks for the feedback, I'll work on it.

Most importantly… if you do reach out to someone, read their profile and make sure you bring up something that they wrote about.

I try to be unique / clever and not generic, but sometimes it's tough without a lot to go on.