One thing I would do, I would have a strict moratorium on discussing your W with coworkers. I know it is tempting, but most people won't be honest with you anyway. They will patronize you to try to make you feel better. "SHE BE CRAZY!"

If someone tries bringing her up just say "I am uncomfortable discussing that with you." And end the conversation. It will save you a lot of headaches and problems later.

GAL, work on you, continue to try to detach your emotions from her words and deeds. That is your focus.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018