Originally Posted by Jq25
I made a big mistake this week ...Friend of mine invited me out, so we met up at the bar where I used to go to with my eX.....I was dressed to impress (was not trying), lots of girls gave me compliments, Lost weight, being funny and outgoing. I was a shocker for most people, no one was expecting to see me looking good, Not down mentally and going out. To the question about M I replied that everyone has their own path, and I am fine with mine. Still was very uncomfortable about everything...

I do not believe this was a mistake. Sounds like you did a great job.


Mistakes in my mind are things like:

I got drunk and went over to her house and confronted her and OM.
I initiated R talk with her.
I told our friends she has OM.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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