Jimbo,

I haven't read your threads, but see you're back after a 10 year hiatus.

What does "I Am Still Standing" mean from a practical perspective? If you haven't heard from your ExW in over a decade...have you reached out to her? have you dated other people?

Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21