I am just saying she could be nicer about all this, I am not over her and sometimes I just miss old days. I think if there was “NO” OM maybe it would be easier in my mind(when I did not know about OM I was as trying to talk sense into her, to my surprise it was firing back at me 10x. NC is great, helps me in a lot of ways - I don’t keep looking at the phone hoping to get a call from her. No expectations to talk to her. We do SEE each other every weekday multiple times saying the least which is BS and not saying a word to each other. Her missing me not going to happen, she sees way to much of me.
Some folks I know got divorced recently no one was dealing with anything remotely close to what I am going through both couples with kids too. Both gave me the same advice she cheated just walk away. I was and I am trying to R given the opportunity (I know it’s not going to happen in my sitch she already chose OM over S it’s a relationship NOW not an A) and I am making myself better every day.
