WW vs MLCer vs WAW

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Why do you want to talk? And be honest with yourself here.

If there's a serious matter about your kid that's one thing - though most discussion/decisions can be made via email - but if it's related to D negotiations go through her L and if it's (I suspect) to engage with her in order to win her back you should resist. You almost certainly get the result you hope for and it'll set you back. NC isn't something you can just turn on and off every other week or month. To LH's point it's to help you detach. Plus, you have to let her play things out and start realizing she's going to lose you - every time you reach out and tell her you miss her and want her back it gives her power and comfort and ease about moving in the direction she's already going.