Pregnant, Abandoned Twice, Affairs OW continued

[AnnKay]

Kind18,

You know Ann, some things add value and happiness and enrichment to our lives … and some things keep taking it away. “Detachment” all boils down to deciding where you want to invest.

Your Mum is right.

Yes so true. If I look back to my relationship I could see how he did not really contribute much emotionally to the MR. He was probably more distant and aloof, and I just took it as a natural progression. I realise now that it is not the type of relationship I want in the future.

I think your mom is EXACTLY right AnnKay. (((HUGS)))

Thanks DejaVu. Mums do have a way of seeing through situations.