I did not know that pMs don’t work, I thought it’s not working for me. Lol
I made a big mistake this week and kind of did not want to bring others with me down. I should of known better.
Friend of mine invited me out, so we met up at the bar where I used to go to with my eX. To my surprise there were at least couple of dozens of people that I knew (ran into before or had a small talk) after BD I stopped socializing with them. Friend end up not coming in because he had to run home.
Everyone (a lot of people)greeted me and told me how sorry they are to what happened. My eX was hanging out with my friends and proudly was telling people that we are getting divorce + more details to some. Why would you bring a dirty laundry???? She has AP turned into OM they are already in the serious relationship “marriage talks”. Most of the people don’t know about her A and OM. OM couple friends were there too, gave me strange looks.
On the other hand, I was not expecting to see many people. I was dressed to impress (was not trying), lots of girls gave me compliments, Lost weight, being funny and outgoing. I was a shocker for most people, no one was expecting to see me looking good, Not down mentally and going out. To the question about M I replied that everyone has their own path, and I am fine with mine. Still was very uncomfortable about everything.
I think this experience happened way to soon, I don’t think I was ready to face it. But it would of happened anyways.
