I understand what you are saying Steve, and I can see why you may think that about being a little nice guy because of my behavior I have wrote about on here. Trust me I haven’t always been mr nice guy, a problem I know I have had in the past and am working on is being passive some time and even passive aggressive at times. But I know that during those years she speaks of I wasn’t mrnice guy. I think that right now it probably seems that, I can see it myself when you said that. I kinda felt that I did change and did do all these things that she wanted and kinda felt reject in spite of my efforts. So yes in that way I understand why you feel that way.
I was in a totally different mind frame this time as I said, I accepted it, even though I didn’t like it I left on my own it was still difficult but I did. The problem I feel is finding out about other man it it made me spiral. Still no excuse I have to get a life.
