Dink, focus on what you can change. Her, the situation, your son's feelings, none of that are things you can change.

So what can you change? YOU! Into the best version of yourself that you can be. You sound like a decent dude. Maybe a little on the Nice Guy Syndrome spectrum. But EVERYONE can get better. So GAL like a madman!! Work on self-improvements by reading, learning, getting into IC. And then keep working on detachment. Your over-attachment to your W has you stuck. Emotionally detaching (IC WILL help with this!) is the first, best self-improvement you can make.

At this point I feel like a broken record. LOL So I will stop now. Good luck to you in the future, you will have more pain to go through (ask people here who have been through a D, they can help guide you), but if you focus on yourself and put in the work, you will be way better off in a few months than you are now, and may even look back and realize that this was an opportunity to live your best life!

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018