So my one son who 27 and when I told last Saturday we were getting a divorce and is the one who took it hardest last time just called me about a half hour ago. His mom finally made it out to his house tonight to talk to him and his wife. It doesn’t sound like it went real well. When he called me he said
His mom was there like 5 hours. He said hey dad she was being really nice about you saying what a great guy you are and how great a dad you are and how she loves you, and he said I asked her why are you want to get a divorce then? He then said Because when I talked to dad he was saying nice thing about you as well. Then he said he told his mom he was mad at her, he said to her because i feel dad tried really hard, and he said she said he did, And it sounds like she brought up those years and said she just still hasn’t been able to totally get past that and make her selF whole again, And she mentioned since we have been separated about feeling better overall. She also mention to him about me having a hard time communicating at time in the marriage. He the said I don't care which one of you find someone else first im telling you right now im going to have a problem with it.
He said I told her dads a really good dude and really changed and takes good care of you, so I just don't really understand . And he said yes that is true, but again it sounds like she responded about those years and it was like it went in a. If Lee a little. He then said the started talking about his grandpa (his mothers dad) who passed about. 6 months ago, and the both started crying and I think from what he was telling me the night kinda went in circles.
I knew going in that he would have the problems with all of this, he is the one who said to her sister if you know about any funny business going on you better tell me. I'm actually surprised she didn't call me on her way home from leaving his house, but even if she did there is nothing I could of done about it.
I know my wife is currently in a active affair, and I know probably a lot of guilt was eating at her when talking to him . But it was her decision to be in an affair, and started the affair before ever mentioning this time she wanted a divorce. and because of what she is currently doing, that is on her to figure out with him.
But as I said earlier If this is truly what's she wants, I knew I had to let her go and not try to talk her into staying like last time. I know that i have not try to get her stay this time. As far as what she is currently doing though and what my sons my feel and what he maybe be thinking and saying to her that is something she has to workout with herself And my son.
This is all a waste of time.
Have you been exercising? Been to IC yet? What do you have planned for the weekend? Why don’t you go for a long hike outside the city, and then go out to a pizza bar on your way home? What are your mates up to? Any good movies on atm? Do you have a bike to do some riding?
