So your H already lives an hour away and is commuting an hour each way for work and to see your son? That's going to be difficult and put a strain on his life and his relationship with OW.
It's obvious that it has been difficult for him. He looks so much more skinny and generally unhealthy, but it is his decision. I understand and accept there is nothing I can do to change anything here.
Originally Posted by BL42
OM was a coworker married 15 years with three school aged kids. It was never going to work. They would literally fool around in the office before, after, and during work hours while I was home caring for our 4yo and 1yo. It ended when the administration at their work found out and OM's W found out. ExW is no longer employed there. But my ExW turned around and started dating OM2 and moved out filed for D and moved him right in with my kids part time.
Sorry to hear about this, BL42. It must have been a horrible thing to go through especially when you had to care for your little ones too. How awful that ExW started dating OM2 after the first affair. After she was found out, did you both ever try reconciling?
