And I totally understand what you are saying about her sister and my brother law, and I agree with it as well. I a lot of days I think my biggest thing and you all tell me it, is dropping the rope and moving on. One of my biggest hang ups is, she has been a great mother to our kids, and I worry About her because of that reason as how the last two relationships Started and who she may date or find, as they will possibly be around my kids. But again I have no control over this….
Dink, you have adult kids, they can and will reason. I know we look at our kids and feel as if they are newborns, it’s parenting. No matter how your sitch develops, don’t worry about them, please start taking good care of YOU. If you want change, you need to start first with urself and everything else will follow…… I know it’s super hard, it’s difficult and most importantly it’s painful 😓. I am going through my own sitch right now and trust me I spent countless number of hours trying to figure out what happened and it got me nowhere good, made me more sick. Listen to Vets here, look at other threads for good info, it’s there and good quotes too…. You need a big man hug bro, we r with u.
