MWD recommends against exposure for some very good reasons. The posters in the past that were successful, limited the exposure of the truth to a select few, like spouses parents. There is definitely a short window and a very specific way I would do it. Since I do not have children with my current lady, I would wish her well and move on. I do not share my lady with other men and I do not want to be with a woman who does not want to be with me.