My sister in law thinks though right now she is manic state, in a high because she thinks
I'd drop all this armchair diagnosis and speculation about the future.
Originally Posted by Dink
Then my sister in law said, she is going to hate when all the kids are coming up to the lake and her and her husband and me and the kids are all hanging out at the sandbar and she won’t be able to be part of it.
Often, after the dust settles, family sticks with family. There are definitely exceptions--just don't get your long-term hopes up too high based on your sister-in-law's feelings today. Those feelings often change.
Originally Posted by Dink
So I think that’s part of why I didn’t say it was her idea.
I like "It's between your mom and I", because it keeps the kids away from the drama and picking sides. I'm 11yrs out and past any fantasy of telling my kids all the wrongs their mom did. Their mom isn't that person anymore. If they ever ask I'll be as delicate as possible because I want them to have a good relationship with each of us.
