She said right now she has farsightness and isn’t seen what the immediate impact is going to be and she said personally believe she is going to regret this.
Dink I would bet that every person on this board has been told this by someone close to them. The truth is maybe she will and maybe she won't. These statements while well meaning get people stuck.
As for right frame of mind this is another narrative LBS like to spin. Well if she is leaving me she must not be in the right frame of mind, MLC etc. If you go over to the MLC thread you can read people spinning these same things 9 years later. To me it's "chasing the dragon".