Dink my children think the decision to divorce is mutual. At the time they were 13 and 9 and i feel it was the right decision at the time. I plan on telling them the truth if asked when they are old enough. I have some things things I am going to have to own but I also want them to know I did everything I could to keep our family together. How they feel about their mom after that is up to them and I am sure no matter what they will work through it. Adult kids deserve to know the truth.
