Don, I think Ginger has dated someone with BPD and now the ex-heroin addict within the last 6 months. I don't see that this person was actively using 6 months ago, am I reading this correctly?

Either way, G, your trigger points are highly likely to be activated unintentionally by this guy. I'd take a hard pass. If he was an ex user 20 years ago, that's one thing, but still, what's his life like now? I know people who have been clean for nearly 40 years and still dope fiend others without owning it or perhaps realizing it themselves. Hard pass.

Apply for the job then decide if you want to take it. Keep your options open.

As for dating, activities that you enjoy will also attract other like-minded souls.

xoxo

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver