Yes, I could of gave her more attention and spent more time. My wife did not work for most of our marriage. No hard liquor. NOW on the other hand she told/saying to everyone and their mother that I am an angry alcoholic and she had to clean up empty beer bottles/cans and Vodka/Whisky bottles. [censored]…
So you drank a little more than you should have. She is turning it into you were a raging alcoholic and a slob to boot. This is very typical. WASs, and WSs in particular, can turn minnows into whales. It is part of their history rewriting. They are notorious for using phrases like "you never......." or "you always......". They turn to absolutes to justify their actions.
None of that is in your control. This is why I always encourage LBSs to become the best version of themselves they can be. I am a recovering alcoholic, sober for 28 years. So I am pretty anti-alcohol for full disclosure. But maybe quitting is in your best interest moving forward. Up to you to decide, but it is pretty difficult for people to come at you for being an alcoholic if you have gone dry. But whatever you decide the best version of yourself looks like, go out and make that version come to fruition.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
