I was kind of suspicious I might be... I notice I also do better when stick to a fruit and vegetable heavy diet.
Quote: Sounds like he has a lot going on in his head. Try not to assume the worst like he doesn't want to talk with you or be with you.
You know, I know this...but it always helps to hear it from someone else. Kind of reinforces that some of this really is my own crazymaking.
Quote: Must be tiring and his sit. seems stressful TO HIM about the roommate.
I know it is. I know it upsets him that I'm upset. I'm actually doing much better in regards to this whole thing. There was a point I completely let go and ripped him apart for it. So...this is an improvement on my part. But, clearly I still have more to do.
H works nights. He bartends at a local Latin club. He usually goes to bed when I'm getting up, and heads to work when I go to bed. See the problem?? I think H is beginning to see how this is a strain on us--how it's even getting in the way of things he wants. I don't want him to quit something he really, really enjoys doing. I've seen how happy he is when he's working. He has told me this will change, probably relatively soon, especially with him going into the army.
Kind of reinforces that some of this really is my own crazymaking. 
