He said, based on how fast my ex wife moved on to spend her life with OM, moved out and divorce me, she really hated my guts and I was a horrible husband. THIS really hurt me, really did.
Were you a horrible husband?
Probably By far not the best, I did spent a lot of hours at work most of the time, and was working from home on top - but because there was a need for money. Drinking too to unwind. So yes pretty bad if u ask me.